Stop Military Rape/

• Love him/her and don't stop-he/she can't help being the way they are.
• Don't blame: Understand that it was NOT his/her fault. The only one at fault is the rapist.
  
• Be understanding and don't demand what he/she can't give.
• Be very supportive-this is very important to his/her healing.
• Take an active part in his/her healing process - it concerns you, as
  well as the survivor.
• If he/she is self medicating-there is a reason; try to get him/her some help.
  

Resources for friends and family of victims of military sexual trauma:

www.rainn.org